As you plan your vacation keep in mind what kind of trip you are taking. Most vacations are family wise and should be treated as such. Teenagers want independence and alone time. Younger kids want hands on activities that require supervision. Toddlers and babies --when not sleeping-- want constant attention. And of course you as parents want privacy and romance. As your vacation approaches consider the following to keep everyone happy.
1. Do not over-estimate everyone's stamina. If your driving, take a short break every two hours. It'd good for kids, and the driver too, to stretch your legs and get fresh air.
2. Embrace Plan B. It could rain on your trip, so make sure to have indoor activites such as movies. Kids don't ahve proper stamina to demand another hour or so of hiking or activies.
3. Visit a State Park. This is especially helpful to you if your saving money as most parks have free admission to under 12 year olds. The Parks will have alot of things for the whole family to do.
4. Hiking and training children on what to do in the events of emergancy. These are good times to teach your kids on what to do. It helps everyone show that kids can do anything. Be sure to carry your own survival guide. To prove and show your kids the ropes and teach them basic survive skills.
5. Invest in headphones or earbuds. Whether on the road or in the air; adults will soon tire of the dings, blings, and beeps of the kids games. The headphones will keep the kids happy and keep you sane.
6. Have seperate rooms for you and your kids. Try to get a seperate room for everyone so that while the kids are sleeping you can enjoy the peace and quiet and have some alone time.
7. Bring the friends along. Having your kids bring a friend alone will reduce the risk of boredom. It will build camraderie and keep them occupied so not to be in your face the entire time.
2 comments:
these are all excellent pieces of advice. I think the 1st piece of advice is the most important one, do not overestimate the stamina of your vacationers. Especially if you have kids, this can be an easy thing to do. Thank you so much for your insight and your thoughts. Rebecca
Hello Elisha, Great advice on family vacations. I like your advice on separate rooms. I think it is so important to have a good time when you are on vacation, even if it takes a lot of planning. There is nothing worse than saving up for a vacation, to come back broke, and wishing you never went, and the kids reminding you of how awful it was. Thanks for the great advice:)
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